success mindset

Develop The Success Mindset

Do you want to trade your life for anybody’s in America? Everybody has the desire to do something. But they don’t have what it takes to succeed. They don’t have the success mindset. They don’t know how to really completely complete the process of dedicating themselves and having the discipline to do it. The way you begin each day sets up the way you live each day. I mean the Spartan warriors said it so well: “Sweat more in training – bleed less in war”. And if you want to be literally un-defeatable in business and literally unstoppable in life you really want to dial in your morning routine. I think a lot of people you know have said they’ll set these goals for themselves and when they don’t reach them then it’s discouraging. And sometimes they need somebody to push them through.

Success Mindset Rule #1

Don’t worry about things that you cannot control but the things that you can’t control.

That’s what you have to manifest. Because when the opportunity is given to you and you don’t step up to the plate and you’re not prepared who’s going to be disappointed every day? I want you to take action towards that and practice that role until you and the goal in the dream become one. To develop your success mindset you have to go from the I want part to the I am part. You don’t have to worry about what other people will say. You just have to keep your mind on your course. Those winds may blow fast and furious but if you know your path, if you know where you are going they will help push you towards the dreams. They will help you get the treasures that you have already decided you’re going after. But you have to look at a bigger picture too. You have to have belief in yourself. You have to have faith in yourself. Faith is not really just having understanding that everything will be okay but faith is is understanding that if things don’t go your way or if it doesn’t turn out the way you want to it’s still going to be okay. Every time you fail on a board or a mission next time around you get better at navigating the course in front of you because you learn from your previous experiences.

Success Mindset Rule #2

Embrace failure in order to learn as you move forwards your goal.

No matter what someone tells me I never allow them to limit my work. The best thing you can do to prove them wrong is to succeed.  The more you integrate your vision with your emotions and with your actions the more you will become the rule. The more you will become the person who sets goals and achieves goals. Focus on where you’re winning. Focus on what you’re grateful for. Rewire and re-code that natural tendency of your brain towards negativity bias. Achievement means moving forward and in order to move forward you must be motivated and inspired..

Success Mindset Rule #3

You must have dreams and goals that create ambition.

Good ambition, positive ambition, to be a good person you have to have ambition you have to try to do something good with your life. You have to try to get out of where you are today or make where you are a better place tomorrow. You have to do it or anything else is a waste of time and energy. If you want to be a player and a game changer and a world builder you really need to make a commitment to think behave and show up in the world like very few people do. So make the decision right now to believe that you create all of your experiences because you do. Let’s start creating the ones you want by believing you can. Sounds a little strange but accepting this level of responsibility is uniquely and inevitably empowering. It means you can do change and become anything at all.

Success Mindset Rule #4

Everything worth doing in life is not easy.

Never allow anyone to talk you out of the dream the vision and the idea that God has sent you. And understand that for every level there’s another devil. You have to understand that it’s not going to be easy. People want no challenges. People want it done yesterday.But this is not how it works It is not how it is supposed to work. Nothing worth doing in life is easy. And that’s the beauty of building the success mindset. It is looking back on the road you have traveled, reflecting on the challenges you have overcome, knowing what you’ve gone through and appreciating how it has changed you. Otherwise it’s literally like you’re going to a boring job. Honestly – if I can make it anybody else can make it.

Find out if you have what it takes to succeed and how to get it if you don’t have it.

Achieving Goals Made Easy

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How to get from starry-eyed dreaming to achieving goals

So often in our day-to-day lives, in the topic of achieving goals, we’re overburdened with advice to “think positively.” From song’s lyrics to politician’s speeches to media commercials,  we’re told time and time again to look on the bright side, to be optimistic in the face of adversity, and to focus on our dreams. And whether we’re trying to motivate ourselves to lose weight, get a promotion at work, or run a marathon, the general message is the same: focusing on fulfilling our wishes will make them come true.

Psychologist Gabriele Oettingen draws on more than 20 years of research in the science of human motivation to explain where the conventional wisdom falls short. She has discovered that focusing on the obstacles to achieving goals could actually help us achieve them faster. Dreaming and visualizing aren’t all they are cracked up to be, and as it turns out, dreamers most often are not doers.

It is true that optimism can help us relieve immediate suffering and persevere during tough times, but just dreaming about the desired future actually makes people more frustrated and unhappy in the long run and decreases their chances of achieving goals. Oettingen’s research shows that the pleasure we gain from positive fantasies allows us to fulfill our wishes virtually and saps our energy to perform the work necessary for meeting challenges and achieving goals in real life.

The 4 steps to achieving goals:

Based on her groundbreaking scientific studies, Oettingen introduces a new approach to achieving goals. It combines visualizing our desires with  focusing on the obstacles that stand in our way. By experiencing our dreams in our minds while considering reality we can face our fears, make specific plans to overcome them, and increase energy to take action.

WOOP  (Wish – Outcome – Obstacles – Plan) .

1. Desire:  To increase your chances of achieving goals you must first determine your goals. Find something that you truly desire. Ask yourself, “What do I really want?”. It can be a big goal, like new years resolution to run a marathon or to loose specific number of pounds, to write a book, to start an online business, etc., or it may be something not so daring.

2. Result: Here’s where some positive thinking sneaks again. Keeping the goal in mind, ask yourself, “If my wish is fulfilled, what is the best possible outcome I am going to get out of it?” Often the outcome we really look for is a feeling. As you determine this outcome, you can imagine the outcome already achieved. And while imagining it you should fully immerse yourself in it. See and feel the goal achieved.

3. Obstacles:  The previous step is the place where most people usually stop the process and get stuck. After all dreaming feels nice. But dreaming alone won’t raise the odds of you achieving goals, there is still much work to do. Once you have allowed yourself some time to imagine how you will feel when your goal is achieved, bring your mind back to reality. Then ask yourself, “What is it in me that stops me to experience this dream?” Often the obstacle is an emotion, a belief or a  good old habit. In this step you should focus your mind on the hurdle.

4. Plan:  Once you have realized what the barrier is, you can find out what you need to do to overcome it. Make a plan that includes “if ………… then ………….”. Example: If X comes up I  will make Y to overcome it and to keep moving on the path to my goal.

After applying this method, people in Oettingen’s studies have become significantly more motivated to lose weigh, quit smoking , get better grades in school, negotiate more effectively in business situations and sustain fulfilling relationships.


Whether you are depressed, unhappy and struggling with serious problems or you just want to improve, discover, and explore new opportunities, this formula for achieving goals will increase your motivation and will help you boldly chart a new path ahead.

The only problem I see in this approach is that the inner conflicts of the individual, that prevent him from doing what is required to achieve his goals are not addressed. Even if one has faced the barriers standing on the way of his goal achievement, and has developed a plan for overcoming them, he still will be reluctant to take the necessary action if there are inner conflicts that subconsciously sabotage the realization of his dreams. Overcoming these inner conflicts is paramount to achieving goals in any area of one’s life.

Discover your inner conflicts in relation to wealth creation!